Thank you for being a friend.

It’s been six months of adjusting to Jesse being gone.  In fact, it is six months today. The Golden Girls are on and it always makes me think of him.  He claimed to hate the show, but in the end, he always let us watch it (even if he did flip through the channels incessantly).  But if you listen to the theme song, that was really the relationship we had.  We would fight like cats and dogs sometimes, but no matter what, we were friends. 

Someone had joined recently and it was, of course, to raise money for breast cancer.  (I won’t really air my ire here about the whole marketing machine that is the Susan G. Komen foundation.)  But then I found G-Pact as I cruised through various causes.  G-Pact is an organization supporting research and awareness for gastroparesis.  Research is underfunded and patients are often mis-diagnosed for years.  That was the case with Jesse.  We spent years and countless hours with doctors and specialists and for the longest time, they all said he was throwing up because of stress.

For those of you who may not know anything about gastroparesis, here is a bit of information:

“Gastroparesis literally means paralyzed stomach.  It is one of the most severe and complicated gastric motility disorders. It can be caused by a number of factors and is commonly seen in the diabetic population. Often the cause is unknown. It is more prominent among females than males. Approximately 5 million Americans, including children, suffer from gastroparesis. In some instances, it appears for a brief time and goes away on it’s own or improves with treatment. Many cases are refractory and do not respond well to treatment.

Gastroparesis is complicated to treat and treatment options are limited. There are few medications available, mostly geared towards symptom control rather than dealing with the underlying problem. For this reason, they are often ineffective.

Additional treatment options include diet changes, certain surgical procedures, and in severe cases, nutritional support through feeding tubes or IV nutrition.” G-PACT

Jesse had idiopathic gastroparesis.  He was not diabetic and they never were able to determine a cause. Most of his life was filled with being unable to eat and he was in intense pain for years. Many of the treatments either failed or caused terrible side effects. 

When you look at fundraising, gastroparesis research and awareness is pretty much off the radar.  Very few people know it exists and often the reaction when you try to explain it is “why doesn’t he/she just eat something?” Fundraising for anything that doesn’t involve breasts or children directly seems to be hard to come by.  Since that always seems to be the case, I’ve decided that, going forward, any art piece or craft item I sell, I will donate $1 to G-Pact (if the sale price is less than $1, I will donate 10%).

I have been working recently on new jewelry projects, as well as paper crafts, laser engraved items and more.  I also have more projects in the works and will be setting up an etsy storefront soon.  Many of the items I have been working on are also posted on facebook.  If you are looking for something specific, contact me and I can do custom work as well.

Donations can always be made directly through causes to G-Pact as well.

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